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This Person INSERTS HIS OWN CONTENT & LINKS IN MY ARTICLE!

I am really miffed (pissed off) - how DARE this blogger below INSERT HIS OWN CONTENT AND LINKS IN MY ARTICLE - about CYBER CRASH.

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I have nothing at all to do with this person, and there must be a way to correct this.
I wrote to the person to either remove my article or re-publish it with its original content.

This is WORSE than plagerism - it's downright STEALING, entirely UNETHICAL, FALSE, AND whoever is in charge of posts here, I hope you can correct this.

Again, the links and companies that are mentioned in the article at the link above are NOT MY CONTENT - it needs to be REMOVED, NOW.

Re-Gaining Custody Guidelines for Britney Spears by Barbara Rose, Ph.D.

I prayed from my heart for Britney Spears to be able to re-gain and keep shared custody of her boys with their Dad because I know how devastating it feels to have supervised visitation, to lose custody, and what is needed to keep shared custody of the children.

The following guidelines are the bottom line on what to do during the custody litigation process, as well as what would make for the best and most positive atmosphere for the children.

The Mindset about the Other Parent

You must view the other parent as equally the parent of your children as you are.
Cease all negative talk and all verbal assaults about the other parent, especially in front of the children.

Make it safe for your children to feel love for the other parent.

Stop the battle to win – and start to view the whole situation in terms of a child who truly needs you and the other parent.

Your motives must be pure – strictly for the benefit of your children.

After all is said and done, sharing for the physical care of your children is a fifty-fifty job to be equally shared by both parents. (So long as neither parent is causing harm to the child.)The whole premise of “custody” is barbaric. You, the parent, have a lifelong bond with your child and from this moment forward you child’s feelings must come first, before anything else.

The fight for control must be transformed into an equal sharing of custidy, including respect shown to the other parent at all times in front of the children.

Remember, custody litigation is all about what is in the best interest of the child.

What the Court Looks for the Following to Determine Custody Placement

A safe, loving and stable home environment.
A parent, who is responsible, follows the laws of society, is even tempered and level headed.
A parent who provides solid assurance of having the ability to raise the children under the best of circumstances.
A parent who can be home with his or her children. Acting jobs, music tours, anything that take you away from home and away from your children on a nightly basis need to be substituted for work that will keep you available as a devoted mother.

What You Must Do Regarding the Court

Your appearance needs to be squeaky clean. Think Mary Poppins, or a Librarian.

Remove all jewelry, nose rings, tongue piercing, dramatic make-up, and re-do your appearance to be wholesome. Think Meg Ryan in the movie, “You’ve Got Mail” – her appearance was low key, the “nice, clean cut girl.”

Ideally you want to wear no make up except for sheer lip gloss. Hair pulled back in a pony tail, just a simple watch if you need to wear one, no nail polish or clear nail polish, a knee-length solid skirt in brown, navy or black with a button down white collar shirt, low shoes such as loafers. You need to look extremely wholesome when you go to court, AND because of media photojournalists, you need to look and dress this way.

Take off all garments that are symbolic of a group or rebellious movement. This means that the Harley T-shirt needs to be put away in your draw, and substituted for a white button down collar shirt.

Looking like a sex pot with mini skirts, polka dot dresses, high heels, or muscle shirts for the guys needs to be replaced with a fully clean cut appearance. A simple pair of navy or black slacks or below-the-knee skirt with a collar shirt buttoned either all the way, or up to the second button for the females. If there’s a tattoo on your neck, button the shirt all the way.

CRUCIAL INFO REGARDING YOUR CASE AND THE JUDGE

Find out the name of the Judge who presides over your case. A simple call to the courthouse will get you that info; just make sure you have your case number.

If you can hire an attorney, make sure he or she never lost a case in front of the Judge, and the attorney is well liked by the Judge.

What they don’t teach you in Law school, or any school for that matter, is that Judges are people just like you and me, and they have favorite friends – one of them is an attorney! They belong to the same golf and country club, or share time on a volunteer committee. I have witnessed this first hand, and it is crucial to your case. Your attorney must be on outstanding, friendly terms with the judge – THAT is “how” this particular lawyer never lost a case in front of this judge.

Your demeanor in court must be completely respectful of the Judge, as well as towards all in the room. The Judge is to be addressed as “Yes, Your Honor.” Or “Your Honor, may I please share something with you?” This is how to speak to a Judge.

NEVER argue with the Judge.

Speak to the Judge ONLY when you are asked to speak. NEVER interrupt the Judge.

If you have a lawyer, let your lawyer do the talking for you until you are asked a question directly, then answer it honestly and CALMLY.

No matter what you are feeling, keep your emotions even keeled.

Do not cry, or become angry or defiant in court. When I was given visitation rights in 1996 tears burst out of my eyes as if a dam burst open. The judge’s looked at me and said in a forceful tone, “And don’t you cry!” Any emotions displayed that are not calm and collected cause you to appear either emotionally fragile, emotionally unstable, volatile, dangerous, or incapable of handling an adult circumstance as a mature, even tempered adult.

When you’re in court remember to remain calm, dignified, respectful, level headed, even tempered and agreeable. This is crucial.

If there is a court appointed guardian ad litem – either as a paid attorney or a free volunteer, that guardian essentially becomes “Judge and jury” and “the eyes of the Judge” regarding your case. You must treat the guardian with the utmost respect throughout the entire custody process.
You can thank the guardian for being so helpful, for taking the time to visit your home, and for looking out for what is in the best interest of the children.

Ninety nine percent of the time the Judge will “rubber stamp” the recommendations of the guardian. This is why the guardian is the one who really makes the decisions.

Follow all court orders, with a respectful demeanor to ensure the best possible outcome regarding your situation.

Your demeanor needs to be extremely humble and polite. Show the Judge that you are willing to obey all requests of the Court.

If the Court orders a psychological evaluation, only use the COURT’S psychologist.

Never go to a different private psychologist. The Court views this as “pre-testing” and will make you wait six months until you are evaluated by the Court psychologist.

If anyone from the Court comes to visit your home, it must be extremely clean, with age appropriate toys for the children.

Your child must be clean, dressed comfortably, have a happy smile, and treated as if the sun rises and sets over your child’s head.

Never speak in a harsh tone to your child.

Keep the adult issues of custody litigation strictly between the adults. Your child needs to be concerned with Mickey Mouse, coloring pictures and having special time with you.

Crucial Parenting Guidelines During and After Litigation

When your children are with you, your attention must be one hundred percent on your children.

A parent can physically be home, and also be emotionally unavailable – with his or her attention wrapped up in everything other than the child. When your child is sleeping, or in nursery school, or elementary school that is when your attention can be on other things.

Children need to see a happy, calm parent. Their environment needs to be PREDICTABLE in order for them to feel secure.

If you are sad and your child asks you, “What’s wrong?” always share honestly saying something such as, “I just feel sad when I can’t be with you all the time, but I’m okay and I’m so happy to be with you now.” The reason for this is that your child has accurate perceptions, such as seeing you sad. You must validate the truth of what your child is picking up on, and then reassure your child that everything is okay, you love him, and you will always be so proud of him.

You are NOT allowed to ever hit your child. This is called child abuse.

If you feel frustrated, say, “I feel frustrated.” Often just saying how you feel helps you diminish the negative hold your feelings have on you.

If you want your child to do something, the incorrect thing to say is, “you’re not going to play at your friend’s house until you put your toys away.” The CORRECT way to phrase a request is, “As soon as you put your toys away, then you can go to your friend’s house.

Log on to http://BornToInspire.com and download “STAR KIDS.” This is a free, entirely positive method of raising children that I created in 1991. I can only share with you that the parents, including me, who raised their children using this simple method have role model teenagers today. The parents who did NOT use this method, continued the drama, dysfunction, unavailability, and abusive tone have teenagers who are in trouble today. STAR KIDS is completely FREE, and it works like a charm!

You must be home when your child comes home, and you must be home with your child every night of the week.
It’s fine to go out for an hour or two, just make sure that you are tucking your child into bed at the same bed time every night, and that you are home throughout the night no matter who you are dating.
This causes your child to feel secure, in a safe, predictable environment, which is EXACTLY what the Judge is looking for when deciding on custody placement.

Things to Remember

Throughout the entire litigation process you want to make sure that your work is in a respectable field, according to what the Judge would view as respectable. If you are working in a bar, dancing on stage in a skimpy outfit, staying out until all hours of the night, this needs to be reversed, now.

Keep AWAY from dysfunctional, toxic people who thrive on drama, and/or are always complaining. A great rule of thumb is to take advice from someone whose shoes you would like to see yourself in.

Remember that ultimately the Judge is just trying to see which parent will provide the most secure, stable, thriving environment for the child. It CAN be both parents! You AND the other parent can share custody 50/50.

If the Judge grants primary custody to one parent, and visitation rights for the other, please remember you did NOT ‘lose’ your child. You are merely sharing for the physical care of him or her with the other parent.

Place all of your attention and focus ON your child. Be PRESENT when you are with your child, meaning, your child must have your FULL attention. The other things can wait.

You have people rooting for you. I am one of them. As my dearest Grandma Rose always used to say, “This too shall pass.” It passes much faster than I ever thought possible. My children are eighteen and nineteen years old now. There is no more ‘custody’, and we share a beautiful relationship.

Just to share an example, I learned to make the best of my visitation rights, instead of continuing to fall apart. As an extra bonus I was class mom, went on school field trips, shared alternate holiday's with them, and ALWAYS lived very close to them. This gave me "extra" time with my children, and showed them that everything is okay.

This period is filled with great meaning, and will positively help you grow and floursih as a Mom.

You WILL get through this period. Remember this is a transatory, temporary experience just as all experiences are.

When thinking about “winning” custody – think “SHARING” instead. That will alleviate a great deal of agony, and your children will see the smiling, stable, loving parent that you truly are.

© Copyright 2008 Barbara Rose, Ph.D. All Rights Reserved. You may contact Dr. Rose through her website if you need additional help.

Barbara Rose, Ph.D. is the bestselling author of fifteen books and a world leading expert in personal transformation, and spiritual awakening. Dr. Rose is known for providing life changing answers, quick practical coaching and deep spiritual wisdom to people worldwide. Her highly acclaimed work is widely published internationally transforming the lives of millions across the globe. Dr. Rose works in cooperation with some of the greatest spiritual leaders of our time to uplift humanity. Her website is http://borntoinspire.com

How Can People Easily Receive Answers from God?

Brought through by Barbara Rose, Ph.D.

"Tell them to share and to ask like a child would ask for another candy, never dreaming that a person would say "no" to a child. YOU, each person IS that child.



Humanity has been taught to "follow" rather than to listen within. To listen to your gut instincts – no, so many people do not even do that, and then wonder "why" something would happen, when they were INTERNALLY guided in the opposite direction. Sometimes people are distracted by what the ego has to say. Too many people believe their DOUBTS more than the truth in their OWN HEART!



So THIS is "why" it takes some people longer than others. It’s like someone not believing in their own inborn abilities. Perhaps you, yes you reading this message, have true talent, and someone taught you that your talent was NO talent at all. So at that point you immediately took on that other person’s belief, instead of THE REAL TRUTH!



So now, EVERY member of the human race has this already built inside – this internal connection to God, your Higher Self via the energy of your soul. There is never a moment you are NOT connected, you are ALWAYS connected, it simply takes your belief that you are, along with what you are asking about with respect to your receiving answers.



Are you asking about how to turn around any and all false negative views of SELF? Or are you asking about what you "should" do? It's okay to ask both, however, what matter at hand REALLY means the universe to you deep in your heart?



When Barbara Rose asked, "Dear God, Why did you let me lose my children?" That question meant her whole heart to her, it was the purest question, with a sincere desire to know the PURE TRUTH. So in reply, she RECEIVED the PURE TRUTH – she never "lost" her children! Oh, but she did not realize that before the writing, only after.



WHAT ARE YOU ASKING ABOUT? On a scale of 1 to 10 (1 – one – being the lowest) how much would you give in your life for an answer to your question? How much does that question mean to you, to your life, your happiness, your FINALLY knowing TRUTH?



You see, when you are starting this process, and you feel blocked, more of your focus, either consciously or unconsciously is focusing on how you "cannot" or "will not" receive an answer. Perhaps you already KNOW the answer, and that would mean you may need to change some aspects of your life in order to live your truth.



Perhaps you already KNOW the truth, and feel afraid to honor it. When life brings you down to your knees, and ALL you desire is an answer to your MOST HEARTFELT questions – to help you GROW, and UNDERSTAND, and gain CLARITY, on the INSIDE, so you can then move forward, you will receive answers.



The ONLY "block" is in the mental thinking process. Again, either consciously or unconsciously. If you were taught that 'God' judges you, then you were taught lies, and may feel just as Barbara used to – "why would God want to answer ME?"



But when there was nothing left in her life except a desire to know TRUTH, the answers poured in, poured into her mind, that she wrote down on paper with a pen.



Now, this does NOT at ALL mean that you have to lose everything, you can feel INSPIRED to create something, so deeply inspired to TRULY make a difference, either for yourself or others, and your WHOLE HEART is asking for help with this. Your heart motive is so pure that your HEAD CANNOT even get in the way! Then, you will receive answers.



If you are conditioned by society to think you 'cannot' then it WILL take much more effort on your part for your HEART to OVERRIDE YOUR HEAD! That is the key. Your heart and what you are asking about has to mean SO much to you, that your HEAD doesn’t even stand a chance to get in the way.



So again, on a scale of 1 to 10, how much does what you are asking about mean your entire life to you? How much does this question matter to you? What about what is beneath the question? What is your motive for asking the question to begin with?



Let's start with just to know the pure truth. How about starting out with asking if what you believe about yourself that causes you to feel bad inside is the real truth? How much of a DESIRE do you have to truly want to turn around what you may have been taught, to finally knowing the real truth about YOU?



This cannot be an intellectual process. If you are struggling to receive answers, the ego contained within the intellect is actually what is blocking you from receiving truth! So this is "why" in the beginning, your whole heart must be contained within the question, and it would be IDEAL if the question is all about gaining UNDERSTANDING AND CLARITY, rather than for outer direction. Once you know you are receiving truth, you can ask about anything. The purpose of this writing is to help you consciously receive your FIRST answer in writing.



It would help you tremendously to listen to your gut instincts, MORE than the ego/intellect. THAT is God guiding you.



It would help you if you TRULY listen to your OWN FEELINGS, and if you are DETERMINED to ONLY follow what you PREFER in your HEART – rather than the fears in the ego/intellect – you will more easily receive answers.



This is ALL an "Inside" job. EVERY answer, you will hear within.

You may have synchronicities on the outside that validate what is on the inside, or your external reality may be exactly the opposite of what your heart truly longs to experience.



If the latter is the case, it does require you to move in the direction your HEART is guiding you, rather than the fears in your head – because the fears of the ego have kept far too many people from their own good for far too long.


So how determined are you to live out your truth – on every level, in every nook and cranny of your life? On a scale of 1 to 10 – how determined are you to live out and follow THROUGH with what you either know deep inside is for your highest good, or if you were to receive the answer – what is the level of determination you have in following through with it – for your highest good? THAT will show you your level of openness to receiving answers.


Start with what means your whole heart to you, and what you would give anything in the universe to understand or grow – because THAT is "why" you came into this life to begin with – and this does apply to all of humanity. You wouldn’t be here, on earth, if you did not sign up for the growth lessons in front of you.

Once you are SO DETERMINED to grow, that NOTHING IN THE UNIVERSE can stop you – be certain you will receive answers to the questions that mean the most to you in your heart. If your question at hand does not TRULY matter to you in your deepest heart, then go deeper to discover the question that DOES. THAT is HOW you will receive the answers to the matters weighing on your HEART, and NOTHING AND NOBODY can EVER give you this connection or take it away from you – it is the energy of your soul and the LOVE you feel INSIDE of your HEART. That is "where God Lives."

Be Well."

1/31/2007 8:15:40 AM

© Copyright 2007 by Barbara Rose, Ph.D. All Rights Reserved.

http://www.borntoinspire.com

In Loving Memory of My Dearest Grandma Rose (April 17, 1918 - Jan 31, 2002)

Eulogy for Grandma Rose (April 17, 1918 – January 31, 2002)
Written by Barbara Rose on January 31, 2002, 8:53 PM

Good morning. On behalf of my Grandma Rose, I would like to thank you all for being here today.



There is only one thing I can speak about in memory of my Grandma Rose, and that is the difference she has made.



Because of her, we were blessed to experience the very best of life. She taught us the meaning of love. She endlessly and loyally gave us the very best of her heart.



Grandma, you were my best friend, the closest person to me all of my life.

You never once let me down. You never let any of us down.



You gave us roots and wings.

Taught us the meaning of family, and gave us a true heritage. You instilled within us the highest ethics, and values of dignity, integrity, humanity, charity, courage and love.



You believed in us, and during the times we may not have known which way to go, you showed us.

Without judgment you backed us at every turn, and with every step, your love sustained us.



Your chicken soup sustained us. Those beautiful blue eyes, and sweet smile comforted us, no matter how difficult life became. You were always there.



Each one of us here today is only better because of you Grandma. You made so many of my dreams come true. I am grateful to you for eternity.



Grandma Rose, you are also eternal.

We are each a part of you. You saw the best within us, and it is that best, that we will carry on, and teach our children.



I know you are happy, free, with God, and watching over us.



For every beautiful quality and memory you gave us,

For every dream you made come true

We love you Grandma

We will miss you so much.



You are the finest human being we have ever known

We will keep you alive each day for the rest of our lives.

Barbara Rose, Ph.D. Releases 7 New Groundbreaking Books in 2007

Hello,

I hope you’re enjoying this New Year. I have some positive changes regarding the books I am releasing in 2007. I’ve felt a deep inner calling or shift, whatever name you want to give it, regarding consciousness and uplifting humanity.

I tossed the book about ageing youthfully, I just didn’t feel the passion for it, and there are plenty of books already on the market by experts in that field. The book that replaced that one is called Realigning Religion: Consciousness and the Survival of the Human Species. This is a book that I hope will truly make the difference it is intended to make. I’m very excited about it!

I’ve re-adjusted release dates of my new books. What drives my motivation is the passion I feel about the subject that I am bringing through.
So here is the updated book release schedule for 2007.

Release Date 03/20/2007

Dear God, I Have Teenagers. Please Help!

I Am Unhappy with My Teen Life, Please Help!

Release Date 05/16/2007

Transforming the Unknown: How to Transform What’s Holding You Back in Life When You Don't Know What it Is

Release Date 08/13/2007

Wisdom On The Other Side Of Knowledge

Release Date 08/16/2007

101 Ways Your Higher Self Speaks to You

Release Date 09/12/2007

Realigning Religion: Consciousness and the Survival of the Human Species

Release Date 09/18/2007

I'm Not In This Life To Please You!

Release Date 12/03/2007

I Don’t Need Your Permission to Live My Life!

I am passionately in love with this process, so to me even though it takes every ounce of energy I have to bring through these books, it doesn’t feel like “work” but BLISS! I know in my heart they will make the difference they are intended to make, and this is what fuels my passion in this area. I hope you get as much out of the books as all that goes into creating them. Nothing matters more to me as far as my work mission in this life.

Enjoy!

With much love,
Barbara
http://www.borntoinspire.com
http://www.IHSC.info

Would be nice if people gave Author Credit for their articles

I receive daily reports about everything that has my name, articles and books on the internet in every language.

So here I receive an alert from this Blogger at the link below

painreliefhub.blogspot.com/2007/01/are-you-having-relationship.html

posting an article from my website www.borntoinspire.com

without ANY author credit, not a link, NOTHING. So I left this comment:

At January 5, 2007 6:48:00 PM PST , Barbara Rose, Ph.D. said...
Hi, I appreciate your sharing my article, would you be so kind to give author credit to Barbara Rose, Ph.D. along with a link to my website http://www.borntoinspire.com
This is the appropriate thing to do when you are publishing articles written by the author of the article.
Thank you. I hope you will update your post.

Kind regards,
Barbara Rose, author of Stop Being the String Along: A Relationship Guide to Being THE ONE

I just thinnk that if people are going to share a copyrighted article, they need to give appropriate credit to the author, along with a link to that author's website.

I'm very giving when it comes to sharing the content I create, it's all over the internet, however, proper credit must be given.

Now, I am going to continue bringing through the book I am writing - I have another fourteen books coming out back to back, so I'm just a tad busy.

Barbara